The first rule you learn in the sandbox is that you don’t engage the haters. How did we forget such sage advice? Haters will hate, people will talk, what can you do? The principle behind it is that you can’t offer them an advantage. As soon as you give them a reaction, which is the only thing they seek more than attention, they’ve already won. For example, Renee Zellweger. Jesus Christ, you are an Academy-Award winning actress. It is nobody’s business what you do with your face.
Here’s the thing though, activism, open-mindedness, and defining yourself as a liberal generally means that you know when to play ball. Being a caring individual demands it. So often we want to stay quiet because it’s inconvenient, we don’t want to get in trouble or become an outsider. In the face of any form of hatred, when someone else’s human rights are being compromised, it is our duty to speak up and to bear witness.
That is all the heavy stuff but in the more superficial realm of someone not liking you, well who really cares. The best possible tactic you can take is to pay them no mind. It’s always so easy to laugh behind a keyboard or with a group of girlfriends right? Just remember that the person you’re ridiculing is someone’s sister, son, daughter or brother. With all this in consideration, it takes a great deal of will-power not to involve yourself in these situations, especially when you’ve thought of something particularly witty to say. Practicing radio silence is not easy. But seriously, expend that energy somewhere else more productive and on someone more worthy.
Everyone is different. Some provide a play-by-play of their daily life, others don’t. But I guarantee that 99.9% of the time, both parties are doing just fine.